WOW. I really appreciate the British perspective on this, Louise. We are all grappling with the 21C realities of reparation for centuries of racial abuse. But this perspective about the traditions & hierarchy of royalty & SERVICE are invaluable from the U.S. perspective. Many of us (mea culpa) really hadn't moved forward in perception of British Crown since King George III (especially since Hamilton hit the world scene)! So understanding the service which accompanies royal titles is truly helpful. THANK YOU. Harry really needs to think about HIS roots too, IMHO.
Hi Suzanne, thank you - yes, I can see that, but ultimately, Brits believe that privilege = service, or it should. That's why Andrew and Michael of Kent have to be kicked out as well. Harry has taken it a step further by actively attacking the nation that gives him the titles and makes him famous, and all his money comes from his fame. He was happiest in the Army because that was the only time he actually worked for a living and was valued by his peers according to the work he put in, which was solid, and not according to his status. I hope he can find that again as a civilian, and as Mr. Mountbatten-Windsor.
Aside from the details of how Charles and the Queen move forward, what is most glaring, is the lack of maturity, self awareness & sense of respect that is lacking in Harry. With his birthright cane much responsibility but also, privilege. He had the best of everything including education. Common sense dictates how most people behave during a family crisis such as the death of his grandfather after a long illness. There is a time and place fir everything. His appearance on Oprah, failure to celebrate the Queen’s 95th & his treatment of Charles was appalling for anyone who isn’t a royal. One would think he cannot possibly be this out of touch or self centered, but here we are. His behavior is self serving and self centered and childlike. Adulting means resolving conflicts. It would seem that in spite of his honored military career & service, he remains quite childish. Markle always seemed to be the opportunist & exploitative one but in some ways, Harry’s behavior is worse. He was brought up & literally groomed to know better. The part where I have pity for him, is he doesn’t seem to be aware that his putting himself out there about his PTSD & airing his family’s private affairs, diminishes respect fir him & not them...it’s sad & pathetic & above all, disappointing from a young man who up until his exit from his country, seemed like a likable, kind & charming guy.
To be clear, I have utmost sympathy for those with PTSD & understand personal trauma more than I can share. I did not mean to infer Harry does not have PTSD but I take umbrage with the exploitative way he is approaching this. Most people deal with their trauma privately. Also, airing the family problems is more akin to reality based television than worthy of a young man who grew up in the royal family.
Pure drivel. How do you know that what Harry described about Charles was a lie? And isn't it convenient that the family, which is known to ignore calls for compassion for its own members, after ignoring Harry and Meg’s requests for help are NOW pissed off because their lack of compassion is made public? The Queen and Charles aren’t some weak, powerless seniors who have been bullied. They brought this on themselves. Good for Harry.
WOW. I really appreciate the British perspective on this, Louise. We are all grappling with the 21C realities of reparation for centuries of racial abuse. But this perspective about the traditions & hierarchy of royalty & SERVICE are invaluable from the U.S. perspective. Many of us (mea culpa) really hadn't moved forward in perception of British Crown since King George III (especially since Hamilton hit the world scene)! So understanding the service which accompanies royal titles is truly helpful. THANK YOU. Harry really needs to think about HIS roots too, IMHO.
Hi Suzanne, thank you - yes, I can see that, but ultimately, Brits believe that privilege = service, or it should. That's why Andrew and Michael of Kent have to be kicked out as well. Harry has taken it a step further by actively attacking the nation that gives him the titles and makes him famous, and all his money comes from his fame. He was happiest in the Army because that was the only time he actually worked for a living and was valued by his peers according to the work he put in, which was solid, and not according to his status. I hope he can find that again as a civilian, and as Mr. Mountbatten-Windsor.
Metaphorical mike drop Louise! Nothing more needs to be said......
Aside from the details of how Charles and the Queen move forward, what is most glaring, is the lack of maturity, self awareness & sense of respect that is lacking in Harry. With his birthright cane much responsibility but also, privilege. He had the best of everything including education. Common sense dictates how most people behave during a family crisis such as the death of his grandfather after a long illness. There is a time and place fir everything. His appearance on Oprah, failure to celebrate the Queen’s 95th & his treatment of Charles was appalling for anyone who isn’t a royal. One would think he cannot possibly be this out of touch or self centered, but here we are. His behavior is self serving and self centered and childlike. Adulting means resolving conflicts. It would seem that in spite of his honored military career & service, he remains quite childish. Markle always seemed to be the opportunist & exploitative one but in some ways, Harry’s behavior is worse. He was brought up & literally groomed to know better. The part where I have pity for him, is he doesn’t seem to be aware that his putting himself out there about his PTSD & airing his family’s private affairs, diminishes respect fir him & not them...it’s sad & pathetic & above all, disappointing from a young man who up until his exit from his country, seemed like a likable, kind & charming guy.
To be clear, I have utmost sympathy for those with PTSD & understand personal trauma more than I can share. I did not mean to infer Harry does not have PTSD but I take umbrage with the exploitative way he is approaching this. Most people deal with their trauma privately. Also, airing the family problems is more akin to reality based television than worthy of a young man who grew up in the royal family.
Pure drivel. How do you know that what Harry described about Charles was a lie? And isn't it convenient that the family, which is known to ignore calls for compassion for its own members, after ignoring Harry and Meg’s requests for help are NOW pissed off because their lack of compassion is made public? The Queen and Charles aren’t some weak, powerless seniors who have been bullied. They brought this on themselves. Good for Harry.